The Purpose Driven Life

Aptitude is what you could Become . Attitude is what you do Become . Character is your attitudes throughout your life .

Dear all , it is not easy to survive in the character that we want and maintain our integrity . As some of the current instance , Allah test how strong I am as a human stance in maintaining the character and integrity .

Every human being must have a principle , which is a dream of going to be like how we are remembered and recognized by someone after we died. It was called aptitude.  Although contrary to the prevailing norm, we remain a determinant of the values ​​that we want to specify in life. Aptitude is all about what we want that we could become.

Once we know our aptitude , we have to keep our attitude. Attitude is more of  habit or behavior, the attitude is how we react on every single thing that happened . If you were eating then someone took your food without your permission first, what your first reaction?  If you want to be the greater person, you can forgiving and smile. If you want to be an ordinary person, you can choose to be angry .

Character is something more complicated . The summary of attitude in our lives is a character . I'm sure we all want to have a strong character , tough, etc. because basically we are all kind . The theory is easy eventhough the practiced could be more harder. 

So... Yes , keep your attitude . Do your best at every event , pick the best reaction , in accordance with the guidelines ( aptitude ) that you specify/want to be. Then we eventually have a good character.

Dear all , lets try harder to maintain our character. And when you succeed in maintaining the character , integrity is the reward . What is integrity ? What is the difference with the character? Easy answer ...

Integrity is not hypocrisy , no strings attached , not something that can be made-up . Integrity is something that is seen or not seen us will do it without distinction .

For example, you do your pray more good when people see you doing that (pray) and when you are alone you do your pray in hurry. If you do like that, it means your integrity is questionable .

A person with good integrity will do the same to worship Allah in every situation. Because he is doing something good not for the sake of himself , but sincere to Allah SWT. Yes , definitely in integrity contained the value of God, therefore a person of integrity both certainly favored by the surrounding , and generally beneficial for others.

Dear all , life is just this one time , ask yourself, what happened after you die? What the peoples remember about you? Whether your good principle or your bad attitude? Have you emphasize your attitude and try to shape your character? What do you care about your integrity?

Another example, we so desperate actually really want to steal  something, really want to fornicate , but we did not do it , because we are shame to God , shame to be seen by God . It's called the good attitude, not pretending to be a good men. Of course the side effects you will be considered a person of good character and high integrity by other humans , it's a bonus . But we do not doing this for the purpose of hypocritical .

So set up your mind, I want to be a good men , man who keep my character and integrity . Maintain the values ​​that many people do not care about. Because it would make me different in the presence of the Creator in the future . It's okay we live hard , but still keep the character and integrity of our .

Agree or not of course go back to each of you personally . Because life is only once, I think we all have to do the thing right and greater. Even a few years ago a friend once said , " Mas , it is good when the man had a good principle , but the family,  how come do you feed them with that? " , I answered to him, "If I can put it on the plate, maybe i"ll let them eating my principles, there is nothing wrong to live in a principle" . Dear good friend , thank God until this day I still can prove to you that just for a bite of rice me as the principled man no need to sell my principle away from my life, once again i remind you, character and integrity is the prize for any man who dared to have principles .

All of sustenance is the will of God , good people and bad people still given sustenance by Him , then why do we not choose to be good right? 

If we could live with death became known with great personal and has the character and integrity , why should we choose ordinary life ?

So I chose to build my character at an early age and maintain my integrity to the death . You ?